6 Signs A Lady Wants To Sleep With You When She Comes Visiting (MUST READ 18+)

6 Signs A Lady Wants To Sleep With You When She Comes Visiting (MUST READ 18+)
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By Hadez J. M
Guys are not only guilty about this, sometimes we ladies really feel the urge to be alone and get down with someone we have a crush on. OK enough said lipsrsealed

I know some people might take me as a bad girl but I don’t care. I am going to state the fact and hey I am here to have fun

1. She comes to your house with a short skirt or a short gown: some guys don’t seem to understand the signs though. The thing is we ladies are very conscious of what we wear, so coming to your house looking like a hot model is a cue wink

2. She lays her head on your shoulders or laps: this is a very popular trick we use but some guys are too quick to start kissing and pressing… This is not cool, it makes us uneasy and we change our mind. Why don’t put just take it slow and wait for the right moment then you see we actually repaired for this before coming wink

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3. Telling you we want to sleep and you shouldn’t disturb: let me tell you a secret guy, no girl, I repeat no girl will ever come to your house if she feels she is tired and will not enjoy herself when she comes (trust me)
4. Saying she will be leaving in an hour time: we are actually telling you to make a move but someone guys don’t get it. Instead they will be begging us to stay a little longer. Durr if I have somewhere else to go that evening, do you think I will come and spend time in your house? undecided

5. We loose off some buttons on our shirt: we want you to feel aroused and

make a move but instead you will dip your hands in your pocket and probably start going out and coming in. Then you will be forming bad guy later grin

6. We tell you to play a song and we start dancing: if I am dancing in your room, I expect you to join me then along the line you rock me then you know what next to do. But most of you don’t even know how to Dance, it is frustrating
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Hadez writes from Abuja

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7 Mistakes Men Make About Hot S*x and How to Avoid Them

S*x is very exhilarating and mind-blowing. But it can get disastrous if the right procedures are ignored in the process. Get the details on seven common mistakes guys make with women, and learn how to avoid them.
Mistake 1: Sex Starts in the Bedroom
Men may turn on like a light, but for women, arousal doesn’t happen so fast, says s*x therapist Ian Kerner, PhD.
Pave the way during the day by hugging, kissing, and holding hands. Have some fun together, and show you appreciate her.
Feeling safe and secure in the relationship is key for a woman to really let loose during sx, Kerner says. A long hug can go further than you’d think. “Hugging for 30 seconds stimulates oxytocin, the hormone in women that creates [a] sense of connection and trust.”
Mistake 2: Assume You Know What She Wants

“Just as many women are faking orgasm today as 20 or 30 years ago,” Kerner says. So, if she’s not enjoying herself, you might not know it.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions like “How does this feel?” or “Do you want something different?”
In other words, ask for directions.
Mistake 3: Stick to Your Plan
Don’t think that “if it worked the first three times, it will work the next three times,” says s*x therapist Sari Cooper, LCSW.
What turns her on may depend on her mood, and where she is in her monthly cycle. “Perhaps her nipples are more sensitive or her genitals are less tingly,” Cooper adds.
Pay attention to your partner, says psychologist Lonnie Barbach, PhD. “Try different things and she how she responds.”
When you find something that works, linger on it. Women often complain that men move on to the next thing just as they really start to enjoy an activity.
Mistake 4: Keep It Strictly Physical
Expand your idea of foreplay. Some men “focus on physical stimulation and often ignore mental stimulation,” Kerner says.
While men get stirred up by what they see, “women fantasize a lot during sex as part of [the] process of arousal.” Join in — share a fantasy or a sexy memory.
Mistake 5: Expect Intercourse to Give Her an Orgasm
For 80% of women, intercourse alone won’t do the trick. Why not? Most sex positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris.
There are other ways to pleasure her. “Women orgasm much more consistently from oral sex than from intercourse,” Kerner says. Also, try sex with the woman on top, or a vibrator made for couples to use during sex. “Men should feel comfortable, not threatened, with sex toys,” he says.
To help her hit the high note when you do have s*x, take time to get her going before you make your entrance. “The closer women are when they start intercourse, the more likely they are to have an orgasm,” Barbach says.
Mistake 6: Skip the Seduction
Women like to be seduced. “Seduction is as important as, or sometimes more important than, technique,” Cooper says.
It helps to know what kind of turn-on your partner likes, whether it’s oral, visual, or mental, she says. “Does your partner like it when you talk dirty over the phone or text? Trace your finger slowly up her chest? Flirt with her at a bar?”
Also, if you like what you see, say so. “Let a woman know how desirable she is,” Barbach says.
Mistake 7: Focus on Ringing the Bell
Most women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, but it’s more complex than you may think.
Some men “don’t understand the anatomy of the clitoris,” Cooper says. It’s more than the small “button” you can see. Its nerve endings spread throughout the vulva and inside the vagina. All are potential pleasure points worth exploring.
“You can go back and forth,” Cooper says. Paying too much attention to the glans, at the top of the vulva, can take away from pleasure for some women. It’s so sensitive, that too much stimulation can hurt.
Source: WebMD/Marianne Wait

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Top 8 Features that Make Ladies Fall

Cheaply for Men

A romance writer has listed some top characteristics of men that prompt ladies to drop their self-value and fall cheaply for the male folks.
I don’t want ladies to consider this article as a form of condemnation but to correct their wrong lifestyle.
We are in the era where a larger percentage of ladies view money as love and most times this is the reason why some of them are not respected in the society and further encounter humiliation from guys.
Whenever they spot a guy with affluent and influential status, they quickly initiate s*xual advances and surrender their body worthlessly to him without considering his attitude and source of income, so long as he spends lavishly on them.
This is a list of some common attirbutes men possess that accelerate the way women fall for them:
1. Flamboyant Asset
Some ladies are in habit of erroneously shaking their butt and exposing their breasts when they spot guys using flashy cars, expensive phones and also live at amusing residents such as Lekki, Banana island, Garki, etc. Such category of ladies who do not have anything to offer aside their kitty cat cannot earn any atom of respect and can never have a place in his heart.
2. Relative of a business tycoon
Immediately they hear that a guy is a close relative of Otedola, Adenuga, Ubah and Dangote, they will start hunting him like a frustrated rooster chasing a hen. If such hunting exercise can only be channel to improving their career, the population of gold diggers must have reduced by now.
3. Celebrity status
I know that male celebrities must have received sexual embarrassment from female fans who express their lust and obsession to them on social media and in reality. The height of stupidity which got my head spinning was a lady on twitter who said she can commit suicide if a male celebrity does not marry her.
4. Huge account balance
Some people may think this is a make up story but it happened few months ago when I wanted to withdraw at an ATM booth, the lady in front of me was stylishly viewing the account balance of the man checking his details on the ATM machine. Immediately he left, she equally left chasing the man to collect his number. Perhaps she must have seen the big figures in his account but the funny scenario was when the man openly called the lady a big thief. Omo come see how people dey laugh cheesy
5. Big salary earner
Ladies with gold digging instinct lay sexual traps for guys working in Oil and Gas, top FCMG, consulting and other reputable companies because they know that their monthly salary cannot be less than 6 digits figure which will be enough to supplement their financial needs.
6. Abroad based
It beats my imagination why some ladies prefer to choose someone who claims to reside in abroad just because they are looking for an escape route to leave the country. Even though it has worked for few, most ladies who made this choice have experienced chronic heart break.
7. Connection with top politicians
One cannot entirely blame our female folks for choosing someone who is financially buoyant but the decision to render their body cheap when they hear a guy is working or connected with a top politician is an act I condemn. Meanwhile when EFCC probes the guy, they will denounce ever meeting him.
8. Attractive physical appearance
Some ladies cannot even hold the excitement in their body when they spot guys with good looks, excellent dressing sense and cute stature. They don’t care if his occupation is legitimate but when he maltreats them, they will write story that touches the heart to ridicule all guy

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Must read for all guys! How to get your

lady TURNED UP for Sex.

THE G-SPOT

To get a sense of where your G spot may be, place one hand over your bladder just above the bone. With the other hand, use 2 fingers and insert them touching the top of your vagina. The area that is the most sensitive where you press between the two hands is the typical area of the G spot.

If you use your fingers, you’ll feel the difference in texture in the area where the G Spot is located, which is bumpier than the rest of the smooth vaginal lining. If you reach something that feels like the tip of your nose, you are touching your cervix and you’ve gone too far. Many women have difficulty finding their G Spot, because its size, dimension, and location vary from woman to woman.It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.

It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
The best way to find the g-spot

First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!).

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To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this — sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.

The G-Spot is located at number 6 on this diagram. Credit: Wikimedia Commons

If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.

Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.

While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don't get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.

No worries — every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically. (And while you're at it, consider mastering these fingering techniques.)

How to Make Love to a Man and Have Him Begging For More

There's a difference between making love and having sex.

You may be nervous at the thought of learning how to have amazing, passionate sex with a man, but you shouldn't be. In this guide, I'm going to show you exactly how to make love to a man in a way that is super easy and takes all the pressure off you. More importantly, you will learn how to truly enjoy this mind-blowing, emotional sex, too.

1. Be comfortable with him first! It is the only way you'll feel safe enough to let go.

By far the most important thing that you need to take care of before you start is making sure that you are totally comfortable with what's about to happen. If you have never had sex before, then you will understandably be nervous and hopefully a little excited.

However, if you aren't excited about making love or if you even have the smallest, niggling doubt, then hold off on sex with your man completely. You should never, ever feel pressured into getting intimate. While you may hope that he can just "read the signs" you need to also verbally express how you feel.

So before you attempt to make love to a man, make sure that you've found one that actually cares about you and respects you. I know this part is not exactly the most exciting, but the other important aspect of being comfortable is being safe.

Whatever you do, do not take any risks whatsoever. So for most people, this also means making sure that your man wears a condom.

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2. Understand that it's not just sex — it's a connection on a deeper level.

There is an absolutely massive difference between learning how to make love to a man and just "knockin' boots".

Making love is about getting closer to your man and connecting with him, both physically and mentally. But just hooking up with a guy for the sake of it is completely different. Hooking up is more about lust and just getting off.

When you are making love with someone, you can go fast or slow, but you will always be paying attention to them. In many ways making love to a guy is a way to show him just how much you care about him. While it's obviously a bonus if you get off, you are going to be just as focused with making sure that he gets off too.

So if you really want to learn how to make love to a guy and connect with him, don't think so much about getting off as quickly as possible. Think more along the lines of slow, passionate grinding, caressing and embracing. But making love is not just about intercourse. There are a lot of other "loving" things that you can do to your man like massaging him, kissing him and even going down on him.

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3. Skin-to-skin contact is crucial forintimacy.

Like I just said, learning how to make love to your man is about connecting with him. Ideally you want to connect with him on as many levels as possible — emotionally, physically and even spiritually. The best, simplest way to connect with him in all these ways is to make as much body contact with him as possible.

This is why positions like missionary, the coital alignment technique and spooningare perfect as both of your bodies are in almost full contact with each other.

But just lying on top of each other or beside each other is merely the tip of the iceberg when having sex. You can hold your man's hands and interlock fingers, or you can both physically embrace by putting your arms around each other and hugging each other.

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4. Kissing intensifies your bond.

Another very important technique to use when figuring out how to make love to a man is kissing. I'm not talking about regular kissing techniques like a peck on the cheek, or using your tongue like a washing machine — I'm talking about kissing your man with passion.

So kiss your man with both intensity and tenderness. Slowly and gently suck on his lips with yours. Hold his head with your hands while you kiss him. Grab his hair. Bury your head in his neck as you kiss him. Kiss him in a way that shows him how you truly care about him.

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5. Telling each other how you feel helps you understand and connect.

Disclaimer: This last tip is great if you have been dating each other for quite a while and both feel really strongly about each other. But if you have just started dating, then avoid using dirty talk until you know what you're both comfortable with.

While making love to your man, it can massively intensify things if you tell each other how you feel about each other. Letting him know how much you care about him and him doing the same to you is something that will really help you to connect more deeply.

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Amazing!, Things Guys Hope Ladies Don't Notice During S*x.

10 Things guys really hope Ladies Don't Notice During S*x

Some men are very self-conscious before and even when having s*x especially when it is the first time. Here are top 10 things they are most jittery about
1. His O-face. The reason we tend to bury our face in the nape of your neck when we orgasm is because at that moment in time, our face looks like we bit into a lemon while our penis has a seizure. It is something no one needs to see.
2. That weird sweat smell. It doesn’t always smell bad in the moment, but then afterward, it’s like, “Oh, wait. That’s the smell of my wet ass. That’s what my damp butt smells like.” If you walk into a man’s bedroom, and you see a candle, it’s because that man’s sweaty butt smells weird. It’s the only reason that candle is there.
3. That he hasn’t been to the gym in a few weeks. But honestly, we just sit on our phones and play Clash of Clans next to the squat rack anyway, so it doesn’t matter.
4. That he just burped but he played it off by casually mentioning that the house was on fire and you needed to leave. If we’ve got gas during s*x, going for the “house on fire” play is really only option we have. If we really like you, we have to actually burn our house down, which, like, sucks.
5. That he’s trying really, really hard not to come too soon. We’re doing this for easily 50 percent of the time we’re having sex. Hell, I’m trying not to come right now as I write this and nothing is even happening.
6. That he struggled undoing your bra. I don’t care how many bras we’ve undone in our life, some bras are just difficult. It’s even worse if we get cocky and go for the one hand no-look, only to fumble terribly and then ask you to just turn around after 30 seconds of messing with it.
7. His weird balls. Hopefully, you pretty much just maneuver around them, but if not we pray you don’t get a good look. I don’t want to body-shame anyone, but I think the general consensus is that everyone thinks balls look weird. It’s one of the few things that unify mankind. No matter whose balls they are, they look like the eggs from Aliens.
8. That part of him, even if it’s a small part, thinks that maybe deep down this is some kind of scam. Why else would you be sleeping with us on purpose? Seriously, in what dimension are we perceived as a sexually viable candidate? I can’t speak for every guy out there, but personally, I’m always a bit incredulous when I sleep with someone for the first time. Like, maybe I’m just being distracted while five men carry all the furniture out of my apartment and off into the night.
9. That he has a bunch of garbage under the bed. Because the second we realized you were coming over, we basically just shoved everything under there.
10. That he has a bunch of garbage on the bed. We forgot some stuff, so that impressive sex move we did where we spun you around and then supported your body with only our pelvis? That was only so we could hide a bunch of random crap under the covers.
Source: Cosmopolitan

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